INTP Discussion Forum > People and Psychology > Belief Stops Thought


Posted by: Odyssey Jun 26 2004, 04:18 AM
I hope Jimmy doesn't mind, but I rather liked his point =) I'd enjoy to exploring it more.


(The original context was astrology.)
QUOTE (nobarcode)
My opinion is that belief seems to be detrimental to intelligence. As soon as one believes in any doctrine, one stops thinking about that aspect of existence. The more this happens in one's life, the less there is to think about. The redundant ONE might cease to think and be considered dead under today's current medical standards, where the absence of brain activity is taken to mean that life has ended.


But also consider the case of not believing in ANY certain belief. In order to make a decision, wouldn't you need to go through a complete thought process for every conclusion you wish to make? I wonder if that's just too time consuming, and besides that, anxiety-producing.

Could it be that humans need beliefs so that they're not constantly overwhelmed with choices, and so that they have some sort of backup automatic answer to most choices/decisions in their life? The redundant Enneatype One (haha) may be an extremely effective person because he doesn't waste time rethinking conclusions that would already be the same under almost every circumstance. He may use thought as a means of carrying out his plans, instead of spending all the time thinking up what his plans should be.

Nay, I think instead of there being less to think about, with enough beliefs on what you find unimportant there is more freedom, time, and energy to think about what you do find important.

~Odyssey


PS: Oh hey, I'm a senior member. (Hm, I must think... should I believe this is a good thing or a bad thing? I mean, this can't always be a good thing because some people are spammers and they get lots of points racked up right away, but since I make a point to have quality posts, that doesn't apply to me. Hm, in the absence of a predetermined belief I have to decide whether I should celebrate, be indifferent, or curse this advancement to 'senior' membership... Do I believe that posting on this board is a good thing? hm... Yes, so I think...) Yay!

PPS: See my point? =) It saves time to believe by default that becoming a senior member is a good thing, even though it's not 100% accurate in all situations or for all people.

Posted by: flan2dave Jun 26 2004, 06:17 AM
I think the idea is solid beliefs should be thouroughly justified before adopted, otherwise consider them only approximations until new information allows you to reconsider.

Posted by: Division56 Jun 26 2004, 12:36 PM
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But also consider the case of not believing in ANY certain belief. In order to make a decision, wouldn't you need to go through a complete thought process for every conclusion you wish to make? I wonder if that's just too time consuming, and besides that, anxiety-producing.




See the controller of the universe, Hitchhikers Guide #2. biggrin.gif

Posted by: CosmicDust Jun 26 2004, 01:11 PM
We need operational beliefs that we take for granted in order to function in life. With regards to such things as religious and political beliefs, perhaps for some it's too stressful to think and worry about whether those things are true. Also, the beliefs themselves may provide comfort. Others may not choose to adhere to strong beliefs but would rather explore possibilities, because they find that thinking itself is pleasant and/or keeps stress at bay.

Posted by: shaytana Jun 26 2004, 03:22 PM
Should we tell him what senior member really means? intp/ninja.gif

Posted by: nobarcode Jun 26 2004, 06:50 PM
Yeah, there is a bit of existentialism to it. smile.gif

I was sarcastically making an eggagerated point in reference to mental dogma...but maybe not.

Like take the saying: "seeing is believing" (the fundamentalist skeptic)? Really? But if I evaluate my life (thought maybe, as per Descartes), I believe in far more things than I see and I think most people do without being aware of it. Belief requires faith in order to substantiate it. I consider faith to be void of thought.

Given the primise of the original quote, I guess you could consider the Tibetan Monks "dead" at times.

But the qualifier to the whole thing was "dead under todays medical standards" laugh.gif

Posted by: InertiaSpectrola Jun 27 2004, 03:00 AM
The case of a belief making thought easier is made clearly by thomas khun in his book The Structure of Scientific Revolutions, where he point out that a paradigm, or a theoretical framwork that organises and interprets a group of natural phenomena, such as newtonian physics, allows a whole set of structures to be taken for granted and thus the field of scientific inquiry is more nuanced.

The question of faith however is an interesting one, and it certainly is non-thinking. In Carl Jung's Psychological Types he talk a lot about the problem of the introverted thinking type- that is the inferior feeling side, and how it is overcome. Since the feeling side is unconscious, the only way to unify the functions is by and integration of the conscious and unconscious in a symbol. He talks a lot about how meditation take the focus of the mind off of both internal thoughts and external objects, the focus or "will" then shifts into the unconscious. This seems to be a way of tempering our thoughts, creating a more spacious and integrated medium where feelings can be considered along side theoretical explanations. But then again, this whole damn thing was a theoretical explanation. wacko.gif

Posted by: utopmk19 Jun 27 2004, 03:20 AM
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~Odyssey


PS: Oh hey, I'm a senior member. (Hm, I must think... should I believe this is a good thing or a bad thing? I mean, this can't always be a good thing because some people are spammers and they get lots of points racked up right away, but since I make a point to have quality posts, that doesn't apply to me.


1 point for me! laugh.gif

Posted by: Spartan26 Jun 27 2004, 03:44 AM
QUOTE (nobarcode @ Jun 26 2004, 06:50 PM)
Belief requires faith in order to substantiate it. I consider faith to be void of thought.

Given the primise of the original quote, I guess you could consider the Tibetan Monks "dead" at times.

But the qualifier to the whole thing was "dead under todays medical standards"  laugh.gif

I think going into this subject, I would've considered faith and belief to be one in the same. There's a verse in the book of James that states "faith without works is dead." If by beliefs needing faith you mean the active participation of one's conviction, I'd agree with you, belief is dependent on faith. But I'm not sure I can get behind you on the faith being void of thought.

But I guesss that's how you'd divide it up.

QUOTE
Could it be that humans need beliefs so that they're not constantly overwhelmed with choices, and so that they have some sort of backup automatic answer to most choices/decisions in their life? The redundant Enneatype One (haha) may be an extremely effective person because he doesn't waste time rethinking conclusions that would already be the same under almost every circumstance. He may use thought as a means of carrying out his plans, instead of spending all the time thinking up what his plans should be.


As Oddyssey brought up, is relying on our beliefs really an absense of thought or congnitive use of our experience and learning that helps us formulate opinions or direct our actions? If I ride public transporation and immediately sit down would that be considered having a belief in the seat? I'm average sized, I don't have a belief that the seat would give way when I sit. I don't check the seat to see if it can support my weight before I sit. But, how many times has someone (OK, me) riding mass transit in a large city sat down only to find the seat wet or sticky? Could this be considered absense of thought because that person (dummy me) clearly wasn't thinking to feel the seat before sitting?

I think I know what you were going for though, that once you accept a belief it closes off future reasoning on the subject. Plenty of sciences have shown how an adapted set of principles can be harmful or preventive of advancement.

But I threw out the first example as a continuence of what's been brought up in some of the other posts. A question to the question on the table. At what point does one or should one abandon a belief? When does a belief represent death of thought?

If I have to be across town for work at 9 AM, I'll take side or surface streets because the highway/freeways will be too congested. This is my belief from listening to the traffic reports, maybe trying to drive the freeways a few times, etc. Because of the belief I've formed, I could forgo using the freeways for years. But say something happens or I make the decision to drive the freeway and I find myself driving the freeway and I notice it's taking less time than I expected. The next day I try the freeway and again it takes less time. But the day after that I get on the freeway and it's packed. The day after that I'm on the freeway, and it's packed. What do I do the next day?

I suppose this is the part of the post-modernism argument - abundance of choice, (which way do I drive?), firmly held beliefs becoming shattered (I thought that way was the quickest). Was driving the same route really done out of lack of thinking?

A comedian can do a routine across the country, kill every night. One night a five minute bit on taxi drivers totally bombs. The comic no longer does the taxi bit, ever. Is this a revelation in thought or a visit from the wicked, ugly stepsister of faith? DOUBT.

When kids fall off bicycles, strike out, fail tests, we tell them not to lose faith, not to give up. Thus, quitting becomes death.

I know nothing of Tibetan Monks but my guess is their tedious attention to routine keeps their faith going. Christians are called to worship together, pray and the like, not as a matter of earning our salvation but without this dedication one's faith deteriorates. It can be like exercise where one quits working out if one fails to see results. You go to church for a while, nothing really happens, you stop. Or, you workout everyday then get the crap kicked out of you or have a heart attack reaching for some pretzels. Here comes Doubt ready to give you a huge smack on the lips while she still has spinach stuck in her teeth.

I think in chosing to act in faith is not void of thought or what could be called conducting actions without opposition. But, on the contrary, I think having faith/beliefs is chosing to act despite thought or opposition.

Posted by: flan2dave Jun 27 2004, 04:25 AM
Judging how much opposition warrants quitting is also based on a belief. This must mean some beliefs are held to override beliefs that aren't desirable to act upon in certain contexts, such as times where you set a goal for yourself. I can think of some people who would find it useful to analyze the structural integrity of chairs.

Posted by: relaxo Jun 27 2004, 12:55 PM
Anyone ever read about Meme theory?
I just grabbed this quick little quote of the net about it:

Memes are contagious ideas, all competing for a share of our mind in a kind of Darwinian selection. As memes evolve, they become better and better at distracting and diverting us from whatever we'd really like to be doing with our lives.


I find it disturbing that ideas have a "mind of their own" but the theory could be true. If you think that the human brain is sort of like a computer, then there is no reason why "viruses" can't spread amongst our brains.

Posted by: Division56 Jun 27 2004, 12:57 PM
I agree, last month there was this crazy one about conservatives not being evil going around. It sounded scary just to think of it. wink.gif

Posted by: FireChoice Jun 27 2004, 01:17 PM
I don't think our brain is like a computer, but if it is, mine has one slow cpu, and I think there are quite a few disk read errors as well. Even though I'm not saying I'm infected with any viruses. But I think that people choose to get swept up into thinking about one thing. An idea only exsists in the mind or someplace written down, so it only functions when people think about it. I think that people are just distracted and diverted because they are weak, would like having some fun, think they can do anything, or are feeling bored with their current path.

Posted by: Spartan26 Jun 27 2004, 05:15 PM
QUOTE (relaxo @ Jun 27 2004, 12:55 PM)
As memes evolve, they become better and better at distracting and diverting us from whatever we'd really like to be doing with our lives.

I gotta get a megaphone for the meme getting pushed around in the back of my mind every time I visit this site

Rational Meme: Don't I have work to do?

Bully (or Rationalizing) Meme: In a minute, this is all part of warm up...

Posted by: Jkrs Jun 27 2004, 11:27 PM
QUOTE (relaxo @ Jun 27 2004, 12:55 PM)
As memes evolve, they become better and better at distracting and diverting us from whatever we'd really like to be doing with our lives.

Depending on the meme, it can also mess with the idea of what you'd rather be doing. (i.e. EverQuest laugh.gif) Most of them offer some benefit, with varying degrees of likelyhood that it will materialise. 'Dotcoms will keep growing amazingly' offered a substantial financial reward, for instance, and 'pay for EQ' promises amusement.

Posted by: InertiaSpectrola Jun 28 2004, 01:24 AM
The idea of the meme, a rather contagious one I might add, seems to have at least some paralells with the problem of the introverted thinking type in general: we create rationalizations of things in order to deal with our relationship to society, and when this process becomes so refined and habitual we use them for everything...
but now that I think of it a meme would come from outside, think of Frued's idea of the unconscious, noone thought any thing of the sort existed, and even if it doesn't, the idea has been so contagious that now nearly everyone thinks of the mind as having a conscious and unconscious. It seems like bodies are succeptible to every other sort of addiction, why wouldn't certain patterns of neurons in the frontal lobe be addictive too???? blink.gif Nature, pattern, repetition, sounds like Derrida doing post-modern physics

Posted by: int Jun 30 2004, 06:25 AM
QUOTE (Odyssey @ Jun 25 2004, 10:18 PM)

But also consider the case of not believing in ANY certain belief. In order to make a decision, wouldn't you need to go through a complete thought process for every conclusion you wish to make?  I wonder if that's just too time consuming, and besides that, anxiety-producing.

After careful consideration of myself, I realized I was ignorant on matters of religion, society, philisophy, politics, etc...

(Well maybe not completely ignorant, but obviously inadequate. Religion (or lack thereof, for me) I was pretty much comfortable with, as I'd get in a debate and ponder the questions posed after they were proposed. I would always find a conclusive answer that satisfied myself).

That happened about 4 years ago. I'm a "late bloomer."

I took it upon myself to "relearn" everything I could. Of course, I have my biases.

I questioned EVERYTHING I could think of, and listened to creiticism of others, always carefully taking their advice into consideration. I was a leech (heh...I still am...).

My job and social life allowed me this opportunity. I joke with some I had my mid-life crisis at 22. Anxiety? Yes, but it was my choice so it was easy to deal with.

I also learned what issues need thought, versus the ones that are merely formalities. Maybe I'll elaborate someday...

I try not to "believe" in anything, yet I realize most conclusions fall back to a few core morals and values (and I constantly double check those as well). Regardless, I constantly try to keep myself in check. Ti, such as it is, dominates. I can't help it. Besides, it's welcome, and I find it easier to tell people "I don't know...yet" as I get older. And that makes me smile. smile.gif


So, depending on how deep you get, you're right. But what's so wrong about re-confirmation of said "beliefs?" I'd like to answer that question and say that's where N dominates. Or maybe Ti has to have it's say as much as possible?

But what is a "complete thought process?" Maybe answered next:


QUOTE
Could it be that humans need beliefs so that they're not constantly overwhelmed with choices, and so that they have some sort of backup automatic answer to most choices/decisions in their life?  The redundant Enneatype One (haha) may be an extremely effective person because he doesn't waste time rethinking conclusions that would already be the same under almost every circumstance.  He may use thought as a means of carrying out his plans, instead of spending all the time thinking up what his plans should be.

Nay, I think instead of there being less to think about, with enough beliefs on what you find unimportant there is more freedom, time, and energy to think about what you do find important.



Negative, for me. As I become more familiar with myself and my thought processes, I'll find the paths I've been down before, assuming similiar thought processes, and just jump to that particular conclusion and move onto fitting the current issue at hand into that thought process. BUT, if I notice a dissimiliarity in the situation (when considering other, previously experienced situations) it will be dwelled upon, for obvious reasons (I think).

The situation at hand, for me, always needs to be considered. Tying back to another thread, rules do not always apply, and they are made to be broken, depending on...the current situation at hand.

Or maybe the nature of my "artistic" work (another story) has ingrained this process into me?

Summarizing:

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Could it be that humans need beliefs ... so that they have some sort of backup automatic answer to most choices/decisions in their life?



Where would we be if we didn't question the answers?


<edit> After all that, I think flan2dave summarized it nicely in his first response. That's pretty much where I was going. </edit>

<edit2> And apparently I feel particularly long-winded tonight. I'm fine if I'm ignored. smile.gif </edit2>

Posted by: nobarcode Jun 30 2004, 08:00 AM
QUOTE (Spartan26 @ Jun 26 2004, 08:44 PM)

..........A question to the question on the table.  At what point does one or should one abandon a belief?  When does a belief represent death of thought?..........

That's two questions.. biggrin.gif

To the first one: I don't know. I've never really made it that far. In many cases, I have found no reason for belief in the first place.

And to the second one: According to merriam-webster, http://http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=belief+ means (taking the definition most relative to the idea) "conviction of the truth of some statement or the reality of some being or phenomenon especially when based on examination of evidence". A synonym of belief is http://http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=faith+:2 a (1) : belief and trust in and loyalty to God (2) : belief in the traditional doctrines of a religion b (1) : firm belief in something for which there is no proof (2) : complete trust
3 : something that is believed especially with strong conviction; especially : a system of religious beliefs........
So, my question to the question of the question wacko.gif is this. If you believe in God, and have faith that God exists, what is left to think about regarding the existence of God?

Posted by: misspadfoot Jun 30 2004, 11:06 PM
QUOTE (nobarcode @ Jun 30 2004, 08:00 AM)
QUOTE (Spartan26 @ Jun 26 2004, 08:44 PM)

..........A question to the question on the table.  At what point does one or should one abandon a belief?  When does a belief represent death of thought?..........

That's two questions.. biggrin.gif

To the first one: I don't know. I've never really made it that far. In many cases, I have found no reason for belief in the first place.

And to the second one: According to merriam-webster, http://http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=belief+ means (taking the definition most relative to the idea) "conviction of the truth of some statement or the reality of some being or phenomenon especially when based on examination of evidence". A synonym of belief is http://http://www.m-w.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=faith+:2 a (1) : belief and trust in and loyalty to God (2) : belief in the traditional doctrines of a religion b (1) : firm belief in something for which there is no proof (2) : complete trust
3 : something that is believed especially with strong conviction; especially : a system of religious beliefs........
So, my question to the question of the question wacko.gif is this. If you believe in God, and have faith that God exists, what is left to think about regarding the existence of God?

I think you just hit the nail on the head with that last sentence. People who believe in God rarely question God's existence and instead think of ways to learn about God's nature, what he wants us to do, etc. Some people would see this as a natural progression, that learning about God's nature is somehow on a "higher" level of thought than merely wondering whether or not he exists. I'm not so sure about that. But I do have to concede that there really isn't much to do on what I call "the God question" (i.e. does he, she, it exist?) except go in circles.

In terms of personality type, I think there's a J/P difference here. A J-type would be more likely to just assume something, maybe even the belief in God's existence, for any reason: a sort of idealism and "wanting" God to exist, the Pascal's-wager logic, etc. P-types especially INTPs, I think, would have more difficulty making that quantum leap in their minds if they're not sure God exists. Maybe the Js are really going about it the right way by just suspending their disbelief and ignoring their inner Doubting Thomas. I don't know.

Posted by: Vagabond Jun 30 2004, 11:58 PM
QUOTE (misspadfoot @ Jul 1 2004, 02:06 AM)
In terms of personality type, I think there's a J/P difference here. A J-type would be more likely to just assume something, maybe even the belief in God's existence, for any reason: a sort of idealism and "wanting" God to exist, the Pascal's-wager logic, etc. P-types especially INTPs, I think, would have more difficulty making that quantum leap in their minds if they're not sure God exists.

You know, you just rang a bell - I read someplace that the basic difference between an INTP and an INTJ is that, INTJ believes there is one core Truth and will try to find out what this Truth is; INTP on the other hand, will try to find if such a core Truth exists in the first place.
(Can't remember where I read this though... unsure.gif )

Posted by: barge Jul 1 2004, 12:52 AM
laugh.gif hehe,

The INTJ list is having the same discussion--how do the INTP's think, how do the INTJ's think?

They are of the mind that the INTPs don't like the INTJs. I don't believe it for a second, though.

Posted by: misspadfoot Jul 1 2004, 01:06 AM
QUOTE (barge @ Jul 1 2004, 12:52 AM)
laugh.gif hehe,

The INTJ list is having the same discussion--how do the INTP's think, how do the INTJ's think?

They are of the mind that the INTPs don't like the INTJs. I don't believe it for a second, though.

That's not accurate at all. I like INTJs a lot. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: if I ever get married, I picture myself marrying an INTJ. Many of the people that I admire most in my life are INTJs. They're intellectual like INTPs, and more driven and reliable. That combination draws me to them.

It depends on the INTJ, of course. My mother, whom I think is an INTJ, has a really strong Se function that really should be illegal for an INTJ. intp/alttongue.gif I couldn't do Se if my life depended on it, and my mom's Se and Te functions get on my nerves a lot. With the strongly iNtuitive INTJs, though, I don't have too many problems. They're great fun to have as classmates and teachers.

Posted by: Vagabond Jul 1 2004, 01:22 AM
Ah, yes. Of course they would be of the mind INTPs don't like them. An INTP would have the same idea if they stuck around INTJs for limited time; my idea is that, being on different frequences sort of, INTJs and INTPs like each other, maybe even consider each other somewhat more rational/intelligent than themselves (they see the world from different angles, so each group assumes the other group gets to see the world from both angles), but hell... arrogant types like INT_s are would never admit that... they would kick each other's ass instead, to prove they are better than the other. I like both. I wish the world around me was packed with both. I am both though in a way, so maybe I don't count... unsure.gif

EDIT: Which INTJ list are you on, barge..?

Posted by: nobarcode Jul 1 2004, 01:36 AM
Hell, I guess that's why I do everything half-assed.

My INTP butt cheek is always kickin' my INTJ butt cheek and vice versa. And neither ever wins. rolleyes.gif

Posted by: Vagabond Jul 1 2004, 01:47 AM
Lol, you may be joking about it, but I do that all the time biggrin.gif (voices in my head tell me I am supposed to...) intp/ninja.gif

Posted by: CosmicDust Jul 1 2004, 02:04 AM
My stepdad's an INTJ, and I thought it was so cool to have someone else around who actually understood my scientific trivia (and matched or one-upped it with more scientific trivia) instead of giving the usual "there she goes again" eye-roll. It's fun to talk about geek stuff around all the Sensors and Feelers, almost like speaking in a secret code language with a friend or sibling when you're a kid or something. biggrin.gif So, my first impression of INTJ's was definitely positive, and I still have no reason to dislike them.

Posted by: nobarcode Jul 1 2004, 02:17 AM
QUOTE (Vagabond @ Jun 30 2004, 06:47 PM)
Lol, you may be joking about it, but I do that all the time biggrin.gif (voices in my head tell me I am supposed to...) intp/ninja.gif


Things said in jest are most often true wink.gif

Posted by: barge Jul 1 2004, 02:21 AM
QUOTE
EDIT: Which INTJ list are you on, barge..?


intj-list@yahoogroups.com

Really--you Ps do come up with the better conversations. And I know you guys like the Js. If I like the Ps, you guys like the Js.

I have this weird thing where I think the Grand Order is fair in the absolute sense of the word. If you want to hear something funny--I don't want to be embalmed after death because what if I need everything the way it is? But my faith in the fairness of the Order is strong enought that I know I would be given a break if it wasn't my idea for the embalming. The Order would be cool about it.


Posted by: nobarcode Jul 1 2004, 02:21 AM
QUOTE (CosmicDust @ Jun 30 2004, 07:04 PM)
My stepdad's an INTJ, and I thought it was so cool to have someone else around who actually understood my scientific trivia (and matched or one-upped it with more scientific trivia) instead of giving the usual "there she goes again" eye-roll.  It's fun to talk about geek stuff around all the Sensors and Feelers, almost like speaking in a secret code language with a friend or sibling when you're a kid or something.  biggrin.gif  So, my first impression of INTJ's was definitely positive, and I still have no reason to dislike them.

laugh.gif My mother is an ESFJ and she has absolutely no idea what I'm talking about 90% of the time. I'm not even in the realm of the possibility of being an alien, her most closely matched reference point. But, I'm her son.

Posted by: nobarcode Jul 1 2004, 02:28 AM


I judged this post of mine as being too silly, so I deleted it.

Posted by: Vagabond Jul 1 2004, 12:58 PM
QUOTE (nobarcode @ Jul 1 2004, 05:21 AM)
laugh.gif My mother is an ESFJ and she has absolutely no idea what I'm talking about 90% of the time. I'm not even in the realm of the possibility of being an alien, her most closely matched reference point. But, I'm her son.

Gosh, you sound like myself in a mirror blink.gif (Only that I am her "daughter" intp/harhar1.gif ) You don't happen to have an INFJ father as well, do you? biggrin.gif

Hey barge - thanks. I think I will barge in there to see what is up biggrin.gif "Us Ps" - huh... what "us P's"... sad.gif

Good morning everyone - I just woke up....

Posted by: barge Jul 1 2004, 01:05 PM
np Vagabond.

Sometimes I find all the politics over there a little tiresome though. And I wish it were a message board not a list. dry.gif

You guys have the cool board. No one-ups on the Ps in that category. smile.gif

Posted by: barge Jul 1 2004, 01:12 PM
QUOTE
Anyone ever read about Meme theory?
I just grabbed this quick little quote of the net about it:


www.memepool.com for fun. Entertaining memetics.

Yes, memes are real. For how long were people going "WHAZZUP?!" Some memes are more worthwhile than others. wink.gif

Posted by: CosmicDust Jul 1 2004, 02:29 PM
My mom is an XSFJ (not sure if she's I, E, or a true ambivert). After failed relationships with my ISTP real dad and ISFP stepdad, whom in Keirsey's theory she ought to be more compatible with, she ended up with my INTJ stepdad - a somewhat surprising match. I think the kicker is that she was looking for another responsible J this time; the P's didn't take care of themselves well enough. Throughout my childhood my mom was the primary breadwinner of the family, the one who carried the insurance. Also, she was looking for more intimacy. You wouldn't necessarily expect an NT to be more intimate than an SP, but my real dad was often not emotionally accessible enough (undiagnosed ADDer), and my first stepdad opted for abstinence in the relationship for whatever reasons (though it might have been a good idea considering he was a druggie and contracted Hepatitis C after a while). So it just happened to work out.

In the early days of her relationship with my stepdad, my mom thought it was really cool that he could help her finally understand me. I was always a puzzle to her, practically being her polar opposite in many ways.

Posted by: misspadfoot Jul 1 2004, 05:42 PM
Wow. And here's me thinking personality type was genetic! Of course, that's probably due to me having an INTJ mom (I think; she's not really into science like most INTs), an xNTP dad, an INTP brother, and a sister whom I think may be an INTJ. (I also have an ESFP sister, but we don't talk about her. intp/alttongue.gif)

Seriously, though, I don't know what could determine personality type besides genetics. It's clearly nature, not nurture. None of us could have been ESFJs if we had been raised differently. (God knows Vagabond's, CosmicDust's, and nobarcode's parents tried!) So what determines personality type?

This probably merits another topic.

Posted by: nobarcode Jul 1 2004, 06:00 PM
QUOTE (Vagabond @ Jul 1 2004, 05:58 AM)

Gosh, you sound like myself in a mirror blink.gif......You don't happen to have an INFJ father as well, do you? biggrin.gif


I've noticed this in some other threads where I won't post, because you've already said it. Flan2dave does it as well.

I suspect my father is an ENFJ. So to him, I'm an under-achieving alien. smile.gif

Posted by: CosmicDust Jul 1 2004, 06:15 PM
I don't think my mother wanted me to be an ESFJ or ISFJ per se. She would have liked me to be less emotionally distant and head-in-the-clouds, but she appreciated my non-rebelliousness and academic achievement as a teenager. She also came to appreciate my cool disposition as a contrast to my little sis (INFP) and stepsisters (both ESFP and younger than myself) in my early college days. I'm glad she didn't push me to go out and party or anything. I think she could respect the "nerdiness" because it had a practical element - a way to get me money for college without working my ass off at some boring job year-round - that as an SJ she could appreciate.

Posted by: InertiaSpectrola Jul 2 2004, 02:31 AM
Nowadays psychology admits an equal share of nature and nuture in most things, although it's impossible to say for sure either way- you'd think types would be mostly nature, because the dominant function is the one that naturally compensates for the unconscious archaic function- but Jung was very clear that the dominant function gets its strength from the fact that it operates on a collective conscious level: the development of the dominant function takes place in the realm of the social, where it is brought beyond the level of an individual trait. This was an interesting way of incorporating nature and nurture, I wonder if he was even conscious of it.