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| Posted by: Vagabond Jan 29 2004, 01:38 AM |
| Alright, I know this is the most typical and most boring blah blah topic of all, the one I usually try to avoid myself etc, but I am really curious, as the user profiles on this forum don't really give much info out... (yes, I admit it; I looked all of you up I am a female, Greek, living in the hell of Athens. I am 26 and besides Vagabond you can also call me Popie That would be my basics, I think. I will not proceed in further useless blablah |
| Posted by: irishwhistle Jan 29 2004, 05:00 PM |
| Oh-be-kay-be... Female, 31, married, 2 small children, a bit overweight, white with dark blonde hair, crazy about movies, especially old ones. I'm active LDS (Latter-Day Saints, aka Mormons, which is a Christian faith for the info of those who have heard otherwise) so I don't drink or swear, and I do have a sense of purpose in life but danged if you can get any respect for staying home with your kids. They say how great it is that you stay home with your kids and then treat you like a moron. I am an artist, I draw, paint, and now I'm in a class sculpting naked people which gave me some pause, what with the LDS thing, but my husband said, "Hey, you're not taking it for the naked people right? You think the Sistine Chapel ceiling is porn? Alrighty then." Nice guy. I am also writing a book, your standard fantasy novel plot of the ordinary Earth kid who finds out they're actually magical royalty in some fantastic world. Why try for a brand new plot? I like that one. I'm making it my own of course. As long as there's angst-ridden HSP teens, I'll have readers. I am what is called a sensation or novelty seeking HSP, which is what made the people at the other HSP board so irritating, all that whining about not getting everyone to love them, fussing about a little criticism, hiding in their caves. Hey, I avoid people, sure, but in every mope there is a "get over it" point that they never seemed to reach. And I play an irish tin whistle as a hobby, only I got braces in the Summer which makes it harder. |
| Posted by: relaxo Jan 30 2004, 01:36 PM |
| I am a big blue blubbery thing with giant eyes. |
| Posted by: HotDog Jan 30 2004, 09:42 PM |
| Let's see... I'm male, 24, INFP, single (hey ladies! Talking about religion, I believe there is someone higher out there but maybe not the Bible's Jehovah or anything... I'm interested in Hinduism, Buddhism, New Age and stuff like that... yes, I know it's an NF trait |
| Posted by: NGene Feb 1 2004, 03:53 PM |
| Well, I'm female, 20, living in Finland, and married to an ENTP - so HotDog, seems that many of this forum's ladies aren't available I'm a laboratory technician, but after graduating I decided to continue studying, so now I'm studying biochemistry at the university. This is my second year, so I have quite a bit studying to do before graduating... But I don't have a problem being a student. I'm so clumsy that I'm a much smaller security hazard when sitting at a lecture instead of blowing up some big, cool lab. When I'm not sitting at a lecture, I'm sitting in front of my computer. I'm a computer geek. I'm either tinkering with Linux (aka breaking it so I can fix it again) or surfing the net or reading illegal PDF copies of Harry Potter. And if you didn't happen to notice, I'm the almighty admin of this forum, so you'll better not make me mad! |
| Posted by: shadowsoul Feb 2 2004, 06:58 PM |
| I am a soul without a body. |
| Posted by: irishwhistle Feb 3 2004, 06:26 AM |
| Oh, good, 'cause I've been wondering... If it's a dead man's party, and you leave your body and soul at the door... Does anybody get inside? Maybe I should ask Danny Elfman. |
| Posted by: Heretic Feb 4 2004, 08:25 PM |
| Oh, to be a big blue blubbery thing with giant eyes... it sounds like fun. I'm a small, pinky-peachish human with beady eyes I work in a Customer Service-oriented job, which doesn't suit my personality or interests at all, but it somehow works out okay since it allows me ample off-hours to explore my own interests, financially supports my lifestyle, and also keeps me from becoming a recluse. Ideally, I'd like to return to school to study who-knows-what (I used to aspire to being a professional student), and find a more interesting job that still allows the above, while also facilitating some overseas travel. Hotdog: I have a fair amount of F, too; I have a huge interest in religion while being atheistic. (I am particularly interested in the way Anthropology deals with religion.) On a similar note I practice Yoga moves, but don't believe there is a "higher spirit", so I don't aim at trying to "unite with it". I also have an affinity for paradoxes, ironies, and Cartesian circles, which strikes me as a possible result of the struggle between my F and T. Okay, who's next? |
| Posted by: relaxo Feb 9 2004, 01:51 PM |
| 33 year old male, computer programmer, live in Canada, common law (that's married, too lazy to go out to city hall and get it done). play keyboards and am learning drums because I can't work with other musicians it seems. I hate religion and political philosophies that preach to me and try to destroy my individuality and freedom to do as I wish. |
| Posted by: shadowsoul Feb 12 2004, 10:00 AM | ||
What if you exercise your freedom of choice and voluntarily start following some political or religious movement? If you voluntarily let a group control you? |
| Posted by: relaxo Feb 12 2004, 12:55 PM | ||||
Sure you can do that. The problem is when you decide everybody else has to follow your beliefs and these idiologies use political power to enforce restrictions on everyone. |
| Posted by: NGene Feb 12 2004, 09:21 PM | ||||
I agree with both of you. I don't have a problem with people conforming to the rules and regulations of a religious or political group as long as they know what they're in. I don't even have a problem with these people firmly believeing in their own teachings (I mean, this just shows they honestly believe in their ideology), and I don't have a problem with debating with these people, as long as they don't force anything on me and as long as they can keep the debate reasonable. Honestly believeing that your own ideology is the best of them all and that others should hear about it and follow it because it's the best ideology isn't bad in my opinion. But forcing everyone to follow this ideology crosses the line and is extremely bad. |
| Posted by: Metimbo=IMMT Feb 12 2004, 10:26 PM | ||
Hilarious! I totally agree. If you are to get into my head, heart, spirit, etc, you need to show me some facts and get me interested, if there is anything there, I will check it out and decide for myself wither or not it is right for me. I am a Christian btw and if you were to force someone to believe, than do they really believe? It's like putting a gun up to someone's head and telling them to be a squirrel. ~Tim |
| Posted by: Vagabond Feb 12 2004, 11:13 PM |
| Absolutely. I could discuss in theoretical level anybody's religion/belief, and if this person could actually persuade me that his/her arguments are more valid than mine, I could actually change my beliefs. But the dictatorship of the "Because I said so" statement only pises me off. I am more likely to go the exactly opposite way if you treat me like this. I am a christian too, but I have my own idea of what God is - or at least of how God is if there is a god (being the supreme logical being that a God would be, if he existed). Anyways, I am an orthodox on papers, an heretic in reality Metimbo welcome - just a small correction; it is not the admin that checks everyone's profiles out, it is me EDIT: Did I mention it has been snowing all day long??? Athens is white at last and I can hardly hold my tears of joy |
| Posted by: NGene Feb 12 2004, 11:51 PM | ||
Oh yes. As the history's showed us, people from various religions have done exactly that. In the long run it didn't work. Eventually the people ended up abandoning their squirrelship and putting a gun to others' heads and telling them not to be a squirrel in any circumstances. |
| Posted by: NGene Feb 13 2004, 12:07 AM | ||||
Me too, but only when I'm in the mood and if I trust the person and I can be sure nobody's getting emotional (or, alternatively, if I don't know the person at all, so getting emotional about religion wouldn't ruin a good friendship When the discussion about religion gets too personal for me, and if the other person is too emotional about their own view, I'll start behaving the way the INTP profile at typelogic.com describes: "INTPs are relatively easy-going and amenable to most anything until their principles are violated, about which they may become outspoken and inflexible." Luckily I do that pretty seldom.
Naah, the admin also goes around checking people's profiles. |
| Posted by: irishwhistle Feb 13 2004, 02:24 AM |
| Wonderful people. I avoided this argument even though, or perhaps because, I am a member of a faith that is considered by many people to be dictatorial, one that is believed to discourage free thinking. Well honestly, of all the stupid things. We prize our freedom to choose above most things (except my life, except my life, except my life). Of course we want everyone to know what we know and believe as we do. If you believe that all people are brothers and sisters, children of the same Heavenly Father, and that you have the fullness of the truth that can bring all of those children home if they just hear it and choose to believe, is keeping your mouth shut anything but fear of rejection? But as all people have proven, we can talk all we want, even our own children don't have to listen. Of course, there's more to conversion than listening, but you have to listen first. I don't open my mouth about it enough, mind you. In theory, you ought to tell everyone, but the world is full of people who hear "squirrel" and automatically lump you in with ill-mannered squirrels they've met in the past. After all, we squirrels are only human. Does saying so make anyone have to believe anything I want? Nuh-uh. It makes them think I'm narrow-minded. I'm not. Believing means opening your mind. You can have a mountain move as proof of truth, it won't "make" you believe. We can respect each other's right to believe different things. But we aren't both right. But enough about that. I personally am something of a dictator now, in that unlike an INTP I do not enjoy an argument. I think my husband is very close to INTP, he loves to debate, bandy words, just plain argue. Not spitefully, but for the fun of the contest. ENTP is more natural for him but I think he's an INTP by nurture, you might say. Situational. When I get into a dispute, I get all hot-headed because I can't think under pressure. My Thinking percentage is quite low on the index, an 11, and here's where it really comes into play. I get irritated when someone tries to change my mind, or tell me outright that my hard-won personal ideas (or stand-by borrowed ones) are wrong. I spend years thinking out some of my views and do not appreciate a fast-moving challenge to them. If I have them sufficiently settled, I may be able to handle the debate but it will not be a satisfying one to the other person. What may appear to be a "because I said so" may really be twenty years of contemplation that do not change or bend in a moment's banter. If I haven't thought them out or am using someone else's view (borrowed from one of several trusted sources until I get to that subject and think it out thoroughly, and prove or disprove the source). And do I accept some things just because of faith in the Church of which am a member? Yes. I take the gospel whole, and what I have not reasoned out myself or cannot reconcile (rare) I accept that I will someday understand and set it aside until then. I don't see a problem with that. If I wait until I get it all worked out to live my faith, I'll be dead. That'd be pretty. Holy moo, I didn't mean to go on so long. I do that. And I hate editing. So... It's hard being a squirrel. |
| Posted by: Metimbo=IMMT Feb 13 2004, 03:24 PM |
| Very well said my friend. I agree whole-heartedly. There is but one path to heaven as sad as that is. I really wish it wasn't true, but it is. I don't chose to argue my point as well. I don't want to be challenged on my faith, because, as you said, I have put a lot of thought and decision about it and I don't want it buckled on a whim by some smart-a$$ philosiphy student with a quick (and well prepared) sentence. ~Tim |
| Posted by: Vagabond Feb 13 2004, 06:34 PM |
| Well as far as what irish and Metimbo say... I have to say I slightly disagree - well disagree is a wrong expression actually, maybe I should rather say I slightely differ; I don't take it for granded that whoever challenges my beliefs has the wrong motives. That might be the case sometimes, but I actually love a peaceful argument with people of different beliefs. As you guys said, I also have done a lot of thinking to end up to what I believe, so I don't feel threatened by such a challenge. If the other is willing to discuss, I can support my case. Sure, if I run into some smart-ass that tries to ridicule my standards, he is lost Sorry, I do not mean to challenge any of you guys by stating my different point of view; I wouldn't drag anyone in a beliefs' argument without their will. Believing that I have it right does not mean I actually do have it right, so who am I to judge anyone on such a theoritical matter... I just felt like stating my point of view - I hope you didn't take it the wrong way. |
| Posted by: relaxo Feb 13 2004, 06:43 PM |
| "There is but one path to heaven as sad as that is. I really wish it wasn't true, but it is" Don't be sad, your wish has come true because it is not true that there is only one path to everyone's heaven. "Having a good belief is better than having a bad one (fascism is a nice example)" I find fascism disgusting, but what makes it a bad belief? Let's look at the "good" points as measured by today's norms. It's nationalistic. Surely nothing wrong with loving your country and fellow citizens. It's socialist. The idea that all people in society should be provided with jobs, equality of income, government programs for everyone, lots of regulations to make sure big bad businesses aren't exploiting people. Most people seem to like these ideas. It's a dictatorship. A supreme ruler who knows what is best for everyone. hmmm.... All of the ugly stuff such as racial supremacy and imperialism didn't have to be acted upon, but it was. I guess my point is that it's tough to say someone has a bad belief. Everyone thinks their beliefs are the best for everyone else. It doesn't have to be acted upon, but often it is. Then it comes through into politics and laws. And that is what I don't like. |
| Posted by: Heretic Feb 13 2004, 06:49 PM |
| I think it is important to help get the message to believers that their belief is irrational and injurious, which is primarily why I enjoy studying religion. Too many injustices have been committed in the name of religion, too many wars have been fought, and its malign influence persists in the present day. |
| Posted by: Vagabond Feb 13 2004, 07:08 PM | ||
Well well well... do you not find this a bit absolute? I mean, of course a lot of damage has been done in the name of god, a lot of crimes too; but that is not the religion's teaching (or at least not in most cases), it is the humans' wrong way to exploit and interpret their religion. Nevertheless, when someone thinks this way, I am always open to any of their effort to prove my beliefs irrational and injurious. Not my official church's teachings, but my personal beliefs. I am not offended, do not take me wrong; I just find any absolute idea easier to fall. |
| Posted by: Metimbo=IMMT Feb 13 2004, 07:09 PM | ||
Hmm. Injurious, maybe. Irrational? No. I agree, most of the damage done to Christianity was probably done by Christians themselves. Whenever people represent something, it is bound to be mis-represented. And, without arguing, just stating my disagreement, there is only one way to heaven. It is a simple learned truth. A truism if you will. Just because others don't believe it, doesn't make it false. If I drop a rock on earth, it will always hit the ground. The truth, gravity. If you don't believe it will, it still does. My apologetics are really weak, actually non-existant, but something I definatley have an interest in. Thank you for hearing my opinion and I agree, I don't like saying I'm right and you are wrong, but on some subjects, I guess, we are bound to come to that conclusion. So, I humbly leave you to debate this without me, ::Bows out of the conversation:: ~Tim |
| Posted by: Vagabond Feb 13 2004, 07:18 PM | ||
I was not debating with you (I assume that was for me and not heretic, right...?) Really. Any belief is respectable and respected by me, trust me. As I said - I never drag someone in a beliefs' discussion without their will. So, no debate here Peace |
| Posted by: Metimbo=IMMT Feb 13 2004, 07:23 PM | ||
Hehe, no, we were posting at the same time Vaga. It was actually posted towards the conversation in general. I'm starting to see some interesting traits here of a few of us at least. The "back down" trait sortospeak. Which I think is really kind and leaves, me at least, confident to state my mind without fear of someone dragging me too far. I thank you.
And it really should be....So, I COWARDLY leave you to debate this without me, ROFL~! It's mainly my Christian knowledge that has me debating this with Heretic and Relaxo (so far). I feel as it is my Christian duty, which I will now forefit for fear of mis-representing my faith. ~Tim |
| Posted by: Vagabond Feb 13 2004, 07:55 PM | ||
Sorry, it seems like I keep coming back to this thread - I just couldn't help noticing the INTP way in this phrase; everything is relative, right relaxo? |
| Posted by: irishwhistle Feb 14 2004, 08:16 AM | ||
Neh, I haven't exactly done a study on fascism, mind you. I'm your average "well, that's what the Nazi's were, weren't they?" kind of layman on the subject. But if you were quoting me at the top, you are in error. I am not sad. I don't wish it wasn't true. What sense is there in that? I said this: "There's one path and it is simply the way it is." Mind you, there's loads of lovely ways to walk it. I favor moving with one hand on the guiding bar hopping on one foot with my thumb on my nose. I just wish all of Christianity wasn't lumped together ad nauseum. Will I ever hear the end of the horrible things done in the name of Christianity, of religion? How about the terrible things done in the name of science? In the name of equality for all people? Or things done in the creation of this country? In the name of chastity (female circumcision in some parts of the world, which leaves me understandably queasy, just another example). There have been bad things in the history of Christianity even as you can find good things about fascism. Heck, you can say that the murders by the Manson family gave them a sense of belonging. Extreme statement, obviously. But that's all when reasoning runs rampant. And there's where an INTP has some trouble. You can't reason out everything. You simply can't. Many INTPs and other thinking along certain lines will see faith as a series of coincidences and rationalizations. This is one of many reasons why I don't generally allow it to be a subject for debate as far as I'm concerned. The main reason is of course that in an oral debate I crumple like a paper bag. But it is also because those who most enjoy debate seem to think that anything can be brought to conclusion thus. There is no room in the mind of the thinker for leaving something unanswered. But I tell you that I all the answers do exist, whether we are ready for them or not. I have had my witnesses and will have more of the same and do not and will not consider the matter open for reasoning and redefinition. I do not think my beliefs are best for everyone else. I know they are. They're facts as I see them and I push them on no one. And if I think it is a pity that others do not have the knowledge I have because they can't let go and take something on faith, I'm entitled to think it. I'm not sending this with a snappish tone, by the way... it's just as if my eyebrows get into even my typing. That sounds weird, but I have rather stern eyebrows, the naughty things. Complete horizontal line, but for the gap in the middle. I also am inadvertently debating. I apologize. You could tell me my whole faith is wrong from start to finish. It wouldn't make it the truth. And it won't. You all are remarkable at maintaining a civil atmosphere, a thing I have not seen often in a message board. I always found this ironic since we have all the time we want to cool off before sending a reply. And if you didn't, I'd go over by the wall and stand on my head until you promised to stop. That's from Harpo Marx. |
| Posted by: Heretic Feb 14 2004, 09:49 AM | ||||
posted by Vagabond --
No, I don't think it is really any more absolute than, say, Christianity's idea of "witnessing" to non-Christians. Beyond this, I'm really pretty gentle in person unless you really step on my toes.
While some atrocities can be attributed to people exploiting and interpretting their religion, I contend that the teachings themselves are often injurious... Christianity and Islam both seek to limit women to the roles outlined in their doctrines. The Koran permits waging holy war against non-believers. Many of Christianity's myths require faith, and therefore exclude reason -- a degradation of man's intellectual capacity, not to mention that it encourages intellectual passivity. The concepts of sin, shame, and holding our basic human desires in contempt is psychologically injurious to the individual. Most religions require obedience, undermining personal accountability, and some offer the concept of eternal torment for the disobedient and non-believers -- a scare tactic. I wouldn't argue that some religious teachings have virtue, indeed they do, but I do not feel that these are virtues which could not be arrived at through a rational means of assessing human values. I'm not unbending -- if someone presented a very rational argument or very convincing evidence for the existence of a god, I'd change my view -- but they'd still have to convince me of the validity of their religion. Furthermore, if a person's belief doesn't cause harm to anyone else and doesn't influence politics or laws in ways that I think are damaging, I have no problem with it. I hope this clarifies my previous post. I'd be interested to hear about your beliefs, but perhaps we should move this to a new thread? |
| Posted by: relaxo Feb 14 2004, 03:26 PM |
| "... perhaps we should move this to a new thread?" I set one up in the Flamethrower section. |
| Posted by: icedcooly Feb 22 2004, 03:27 AM |
| At the moment I'm a very bored individual with nothing to do and nowhere to go because of a 10 o'clock curfew put on the city because of the mad blizzards we've been having since the wee hours of Thursday morning. Ok, well I'm a 19 year-old female, currently taking an Office Information Technology course in community college. It's very boring, the only thing I enjoy is Database, Spreadsheets, and Accounting. I need to get over an 80% average (which wouldn't be that hard if I didn't have people pressuring me to go out every night hehe) so I can get my BA in English next year. I screwed up in H.S. until my last year, but by then it was too late. I have ADD, but I'm taking meds for it. I'm 5'8 and 1/2", brunette with blonde highlights, blue eyes, average build. Regarding my family heritage, I guess I'm a western-European mutt, with roots in England, France, Scotland, Ireland, Germany, and Belgium, which is apparently where my family originated on my dads side of the family. People always think I'm Russian or Italian. I want to live in England. I'm not big on sports, but I do like soccer (or football if you like), and my favorite team is Manchester U. I love music, I've been playing piano since I was 7, but now I'd like to pick up the guitar or the sax. I listen to all types of music, theres a music thread here somewhere that I already answered to, so I'm not going to bother writing my tastes here. My favorite movies are 12 Monkeys, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Die Hard, Metropolis, Contact, Forrest Gump, The Believer, and Beavis and Butthead Do America. Right now I'm dating a guy from school who's apparently had a crush on me from the beginning of the year, but I find him really emotional (always asking "Whatcha thinking?"--I thought that was supposed to be a girl thing?), but that's a new thread altogether! I love watching stand-up comedy, I'm one of those people who crack up over the stupidest things. One of my pet peeves is people who are always showing off and always talking about how great their personalities are, which is sort of the reason why I'm feeling kind of weird writing this out. But I figure if someone doesn't want to read it they'll move on to something else (like I probably would if this wasn't an INTP forum and I wasn't trying to find like-minded people). I don't like wearing patterned clothing, I wear mostly modern-looking stuff, Diesel and all that. I can't wear wool and I can't wear polyester, it's too uncomfortable. My favorite actor is probably Bruce Willis, he's always so likeable (and attractive hehe). And that's all I feel like writing now. |
| Posted by: Odyssey Feb 24 2004, 07:34 AM |
| You're BORED? Oh deary... My deepest sympathies. I've never been able to survive boredom very well, I must admit. (I thus often go to great lengths to find creative ways to make necessary "boring" things/situations fun, interesting, or at least neutral.) I can't remember being bored for more than 15 seconds in at least... two weeks, at a boring chemistry lecture. But usually in situations when most people would be bored, if I can't get myself more engaged, I can't help but fall peacefully asleep! Anyway, "One of my pet peeves is people who are always showing off and always talking about how great their personalities are" Uh-oh, I'll stay out of your way then! =) But nah, though I often proclaim my Joy of life (including Joy of Myself [and others of course] Being Alive - yay!), I know I'm only exceptionally brilliant and flawless and infinitely creative *coughgagsputter* in my own eyes Is this philosophy making sense? ~Odyssey I still need to post a mini-autobiography here. Maybe later... time for higher-priority tasks again! *bounces off to 3D vector geometry* |
| Posted by: icedcooly Feb 24 2004, 05:19 PM |
| "But more seriously, I like to know what others' strengths are as well as self-promote my own because to me that often seems to foster mutual respect and interest, assuming an 'I'm better than you' attitude is absent." Oh yeah, I'm all about giving yourself credit when credit is due. There is such a thing as TOO much modesty. I'm talking about the kind of person that wants to talk about this 95% of the time and almost seems to push it on you, know what I mean? I didn't include some of my own bad habits; here's one: I'm one of those people that abuse the Caller ID hehe. |
| Posted by: flan2dave Feb 29 2004, 02:09 AM |
| I'm 20, male. I'm studying at a community college getting ready to transfer to an electrical engineering program at an university. My current interests besides my classes include psychology, robotics, and occasionally drawing and writing. I've been thinking about what personality type I am ever since I came across the subject on personalitypage.com. I've cycled through INTJ, INFP, ISTP, INTP, INFJ, and moments where no description felt adequete at all. Introversion and perceiving is pretty much certain. As an introvert, I like to observe before I participate, prefer solitary activities over group ones, speak honestly and deliberately, keep emotions to myself, and sort out whatever psychological issues I have alone. Perceiving would aptly describe my unwillingness to commit and conform, which got out of hand more than once in school. I believe it is up to me to develop either my sensing or intuition function, and I get the most satisfaction out of intuiting. The subjects I do well in school and my weakness in emotional intelligence would point to a thinking preference. Broken down that comes out to an INTP. I fall into a few INTP stereotypes: uncertain how to dress and behave in social situations, reserved, and relatively smart. I can be pretty inconsistent in my outward behaivor. One day I maybe sullen and withdrawn, another I maybe an obnoxious extrovert. Sometimes I maybe the obsessive INTJ searching out truth at the edges of articulated knowledge, other days I feel empathetic and kind like an INFP. Some days I may lament over my lack of social connections, other days I appreciate my independant approach to life. However, on days where I feel most like myself, I'm imaginative, analytical, somewhat arrogant, and have a wry, playful sense of humor. Great forum, there are a lot of interesting people here and I've come across many insightful posts thus far. |
| Posted by: Odyssey Feb 29 2004, 07:33 AM |
| And my own overdue contribution here: (quoted from earlier posts in "Do you feel you're a misfit?") It's not quite autobiographical, but it's appropriate as an introduction to my prevailing view on life. Read it in the mood of an excited intellectualish teenager introducing himself to a bunch of new INTP weirdos like himself =) (BTW thanks again Vagabond for your nice reply; 'glad I could improve your... paradigm in any noticeable way *smiles with latent warmth* Okay, enough smiley stuff--) "Hell-o... I'm a [male] teenage INTP (actually more like INXP) ... I'll introduce myself by saying I'm SO glad I know about personalities. [edit after finishing] I know this is long, so I've bolded key phrases and stopped some ideas short. Breadth, versus depth, shall be this post. Explore in-depth whichever thought(s) you wish. I know several years ago, before I knew about personality theories, I thought I was different and etc. ad infinitum (lol) that people have mentioned so far. But now I think I'm really cool, because being different is fun *clears throat* Anyway, I've found that it helps to be in the hardest classes available - that's where all the over-achieving nerds like myself are. The ones who want to learn just to learn - but will also work hard for straight As while they're at it. And there are a handful of us that love each others' quirks. It's also great that the teachers of the harder classes are usually extremely weird and abstract and absent-minded themselves. =) Gosh... I feel like an INTP teenage success story, but really it's just because I think I'm so lucky to know about the MBTI and how people are so similar or so different. If any of you have kids, teach them about personalities early on! Please... Also I think I'm SO happy (can you tell? haha) because I try to take an active role in designing my life... trying to emphasize choice and self-improvement. Then I don't feel so limited by my personality, because within a certain realm of personal strengths/weaknesses I can choose whatever I want to do. People have complimented about my character, but really I'm just the way I am because I don't see any logical or inspiring alternative. How could I -not- work towards self-actualization? Unfathomable... *blank look* I wonder what you all think. And I suppose I wasn't as ... tortured? - by being different, since my parents are both introverts. But again, I'm so glad I have a handful of people close to me that I can get along with. That's important, I think. I'm also glad I've forced myself through the discomfort of learning how to put on a friendly social mask [on top of already often-positive personality] for when I need it. I hope you adults can draw conclusions for your own lives about what I say works and doesn't work in my teenage life now. ... Hm! My natural inclination, as you can probably guess, is to underachieve on things that don't interest me. There's also the resistance to authority and what they dictate. It's the INTP Way. LOL. However, in keeping with my values and developing aspirations - one suspects my INFP side, I find it necessary to play along with the school system as much as possible to prove my intelligence in a measureable fashion... I don't intend to argue on this point. More philosophically, I find it a very interesting game to balance myself between individuality and appeasement of the "system"... I look for opportunities to satisfy both needs, though occasionally falling prey to overdoing one side - and then either burning out or producing poor work or both! Ideally 'tis the creative synthesis of opposites in life... " In reflection, another thing I like about being an IB Diploma candidate [taking hardest classes] is that interesting people are the norm. That's probably why I haven't also stopped to comment yet about all ye interesting people on this board (...I feel spoiled now - - - - - - - - ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) ) VISIBLE ) ) W ) W ) W ) A ) A ) A ) V ) V ) V ) E ) E ) E ) S ) S ) S ) ) ) )of - - - - - - - - ) ) ) ) ) ) ) a . p . a . t . h . y *sigh* - - - - - - - - -) ) ) ) ) ) ) )pessimism... - - - - - - - - ) ) ) ) ) ) an EXAGGERATED NEED for PEER ACCEPTANCE 'bout knocks me over, haha. Please don't let that be you. (Darn oversensitive Ennea-4ish extraverted intuition.) Of course, it's not nearly as bad for the smart un-academically-motivated person - they at least have some level of self-appreciation and independence. Then there are other non-IB who get sufficient self-esteem from areas besides school, and are often just as interesting as an IB person; I'm real-life acquiantances with a handful of them. There, I just had to digress on a sociological analysis of my school environment ~Oddy Okay, wow, I'm done posting for this weekend. |
| Posted by: icedcooly Feb 29 2004, 03:32 PM |
| Sorry, Odyssey, this is way over-due: "I like to know what others' strengths are as well as self-promote my own" There's nothing wrong with that. I realize the statement you quoted me on may have come off as a bit hostile. If we didn't promote our own strengths, we wouldn't get anywhere in the rat race. I write this with a pretty bad hangover, so I'll leave it at this for now. |
| Posted by: Odyssey Feb 29 2004, 07:15 PM |
| *peeks around and feels compelled to reply here briefly* And I'm afraid the hangover is clouding your judgement =) Note that your quote was followed by a joke and a smiley, so that's usually a good sign! If I had taken personal offense, you would have known it, being the textually expressive person that I am 'Tis a perfectly valid pet peeve, which I was interested in challenging in order to see what degree of self-promotion and narcissism annoys you. (But even after knowing, my above summary probably overstepped it anyway, haha. BTW to balance out any self-glorifying in my above post: a weakness of mine is self-indulgence - lately not so bad, but excesses of music and food and sleep and hobbies become very tempting either under stress or after a blow to self-esteem *shrug* It's the same with many people, but it seems I have a particular Ennea-4ish problem with it.) ~Odyssey |
| Posted by: Chamoisee Mar 6 2004, 03:17 AM |
| I just joined today. Vital statistics: alive, 31, Female, INTP, in process of becoming Unpartnered, 5 kids. I've been a member of the INTP mailing lists for some time (just the 4np one at this time). Location, Idaho- way up in the panhandle. Agnostic. What else?? |
| Posted by: Oddball Mar 14 2004, 04:40 PM |
| I´m a 35 year old male who found out less than a year ago that i´m a INTP and i promise that have totaly changed the way i look on my self and the surrounding world. I live in Sweden ,singel with two cats ,recovering burnout and the doctors where totaly incompetent so they sent me to shrinks and most of them was crap to. After beeing home for about 2 years they wanted to do an evaluation on me so they sent me to testing and there was an another shrink and she made me do a lot of tests ,at first she thought that i was suicidal because of the result i got from the tests but i didnt agree so she made me do the MBTI an after that she said "now i know why the other tests showed so wrong you are an INTP." After that i have been serching all i can find about INTP even done some on-line tests and they all say INTP and the funny thing is that i started to like my self as i am even if i have felt like an oddball all my life but now i know that theres no point to try to be like everybody else because i´m not and maybe thats one of the resons i burned out i tried to be someone who i´m not. I could go on and on but is only a short presentation of my self and more is to come if someone is intrested. I found a picture of me And for those who read all my ranting thanks. |
| Posted by: NGene Mar 15 2004, 05:27 PM | ||
Kul att träffa dig, Oddball!
Yep, pretty many of us can relate to that... You're from Sweden? Wow, we're neighbors then. |
| Posted by: Oddball Mar 15 2004, 08:02 PM |
| Hi NGENE ! Botkyrka is a suburb to Stockholm if i´m not totally wrong. I myself is born by finnish parents in Sweden and i live in Gothenburg. My spelling in finnish is so terrible so i will not even try to do it It feels god to have found this forum, i have read some posts and i felt like i found a home that i didn't know existed. |
| Posted by: int Mar 17 2004, 03:59 AM |
| 25, married, 1 canine. I'm sure I'll get drunk and spill something more at a later date (if I haven't already). |
| Posted by: Mithiel Mar 21 2004, 08:47 PM |
| Hi everyone, I just registered, so I guess I ought to introduce myself. I am a 26 year old female from Finland. I study English, Swedish, and Finnish at university and I am trying to complete my studies during this year. (Trying to because as there is no real deadline for handing in a final version of the thesis, there is a slight risk that I won't be able to make myself to finish it; luckily our professor has given us these "fake deadlines" though.) I had a good intention to do something for the thesis during the weekend, but instead I ran into a link to the Myer-Briggs test while surfing the web and started looking for information to establish whether I really am INTP. And as it seems like I very well might be, I decided to join this forum. |
| Posted by: shaytana Mar 21 2004, 11:04 PM |
| Hi all, well since I just admitted to you that I talk to aliens in http://intp.forumer.com/index.php?showtopic=50 I might as well introduce myself. I am an INTP, 28, female, Ontario Canada and of course I am uncomfortable writing these things, but as someone else already sorta said, for the sake of finding like-minded people I will do it and read all of yours I took the MBTI test a handful of times over the past year, online, and all came out to INTP, I have also been lurking for a while at a couple INTP email lists, but I never delurked there mainly because I prefer forums (I used to co-own one, long story there) and I was pleased when I found this place. I had been thinking about just making one myself but now hopefully I can find a home here. The only part of the INTP profile that does not fit me is the love of language and grammar. I do want to learn a couple other languages (German for sure) but the interest has never been strong enough for action. That happens too often for my liking. I am single, have been single for a few years now. For a while I was in complete hermit mode and didn't put myself in opportunities to meet people, then I moved, actually made a few good friends, and now I find myself meeting men but turning them down almost right away. I have become incredibly picky in choosing someone that I would consider getting serious with. I am not working right now, actually I am not sure what I am going to do. I really want to go to university but blah blah excuses, I have to start doing what needs to be done. I tend to not do what I don’t want to do. Pretty self-destructive behaviour at times. Ok rereading that, I seem to be putting myself down a lot, on to the good stuff! Very intelligent (duh) My friends describe me as eccentric, kooky, witty, funny, arrogant (ha! but I play on this trait of mine a lot, making it the topic of jokes) quiet And Understanding. As soon as I meet people I being assessing and analyzing them. I will say certain things just to watch the reaction so I can build a reference base for the person or see which pre existing base fits them. They enter the system that I have built in my mind, and using that I have become very good at predicting people responses to almost any situation, what thoughts/feelings they may be having, what they desire or fear. But I do not judge, I only seek to understand. Ok I usually don’t ramble on this much, so I am going to stop now. |
| Posted by: CosmicDust Mar 21 2004, 11:36 PM |
| 23, female, single, INTP, enneagram 5w6 or 6w5 soc/sp/sx, astronomy graduate student, located in Massachusetts, been here my whole life. Waste most of my time on the Enneagram institute board these days, mulling over my type and watching and sometimes engaging in the ridiculous flame wars that go on there. Linked to this place through NGene's "spam," doing a rather small amount of lurking before finding a conversation on ADD to jump into. |
| Posted by: 2stupid Apr 1 2004, 08:12 PM |
| Seems to be a high ratio of female here. • I'm male • 38 • 2nd marriage • one child (daughter 11) • PA - USA • Digital Designer (3d, web) • just under 6 feet • dark blue eyes • brown hair • look like Dean Kane (actor - superman tv series) • weight lift (bench 335lb) • not very wordy • love puzzles (solved the rubiks cube on my own at ~14) • christian • I'm great at "wasting time" • addicted to video games (I shouldn't have bought that xbox!) • procrastinator • my beard comes in patches so it's eathier a van dyke or gotee for me • can't spell, hate to write • don't read books....but I do read magazines, web or anything short (ADD maybe?) • like animals (have 3 dogs, 2 boxers and 1 great dane) I should get back to work.... |
| Posted by: grokkfried Apr 2 2004, 05:24 PM |
| Pretty nervous about posting I'm quite passive, and quite afraid most of the time. I have an INTP friend down the street that took the "other way" in life. He's aggressive, and he won't let himself be content with just knowing that he could do it, and he fights himself with procrastination. So I go to him when I need help with stuff. He's a mean old bastard, but he has changed my life. I've only had the chance to meet two ENTPs of the opposite sex (In retrospect). And, in an un-odd sort of way, I fell for both of them. One moved to France, and the other moved to California. So, there's my love life. I wear "Buddy Holly" glasses (As my parents and friends put it), comb my hair to the side, wear buttoned and Che Guevara shirts, polish my shoes every once in a while, and I'm a little too oldfashioned for most people's tastes. I think I'll stop here. I'm thinking that getting to this paragraph was either caused by my biography touching you in a warm, heart-felt sort of way. Or you were so bored that you consciously decided that there was nothing better to do, in which you should seek mental help -Jef |
| Posted by: Metimbo=IMMT Apr 2 2004, 07:05 PM | ||
| Wow, a bunch of new people here recently. Welcome all!
In retrospect you found out they were of opposite sex? Don't worry, that has happened to me a couple of times. /winks at Vaga J/k Sounds like you have some great aspirations. Oddy is a great INTP to talk to and I think he is about your age. ~Tim |
| Posted by: Odyssey Apr 4 2004, 05:34 AM | ||||||
Howdy *tips my (utterly hypothetical) hat respectfully*
LOL *grin*
Aw thankye =P And yes, I'm a couple grades younger than you/grokkfried/Jef... hm...
Interesting! To contrast: you present yourself as "quite passive, and quite afraid most of the time", and this other person is aggressive. In comparison to both of you, I'm probably horrifyingly narcissistic, haha. This lends me to be very competitive, but otherwise without everyday aggressive traits. Where we're similar is in aspirations. Granted, most men and many women want to leave their memory and their name imprinted on the world somehow (as a kind of assurance of meaningfulness and of life-after-death). What's probably more uniquely INTPish is "representing something that no one else is up there for"- since your work interests lie in Computer Tech., I might guess you mean specifically a discovery or invention. (That as opposed to a military victory, a famed romantic novel, etc.) From the impression I got, I doubt you want to be president anytime soon. Do we thus want to rely chiefly on our creativity and intellect to achieve something? (- and relegate alternative virtues like leadership, assertiveness, practicality, and popularity?) Though it may be comfortable to rely on being intellectuals, should we try to cultivate such traits outside of our comfort zone in order to achieve grand success? Or will focusing on only intellect and creativity [and other stereotypically INTP traits] actually be enough to allow for the achievement we desire? Just some thoughts. ~Odyssey (ha! 43/45 allotted minutes online today, now for one more quick post and back to my essay, whee) |
| Posted by: Naturelover Apr 17 2004, 05:51 AM |
| Hi everyone! Im new on this forum. Let me introduce myself! I am a 21 years old female, living in Canada. Im single. I was born in Montreal but my parents are from Haiti. Im brown-skinned with brown eyes and black hair...(not that it's important... Im a student in translation/linguistics (english and french). Im interested in languages and I'd like to learn eventually spanish, russian and german. I have interests in anthropology and History as well as philosophy and religion. I dont consider myself as a religious person but I believe in a superior Being and I like to learn about the philosophies of different religions and about "New Age " religions. Hmmm .. Im learning guitar too and I like that. I really like rock music in general as well as soul music. I really like to read too, fiction or non-fiction , I particularly like essays about race or women. |